Whatever you decide to do, you'll probably find that it's nowhere near the formality it would appear to be in your mind!Finding a relationship, even just for the night, can be tough work for singles.‘I’m open-minded and non-judgmental so have no issue with somebody who might have other commitments, what is important to me is that when we are together the time we share is inspiring and fun-filled!‘Life is too short to miss opportunities and I believe in living each day to its fullest.But after reading Mail Online's interview with size 24 Verity Brown, who has struggled to find a man on dating websites because she is overweight, Paula maintains that it was even harder for her to find a partner on the same sites because men simply saw her as a trophy.'I decided to try it because all of the sites guarantee to match you up with someone who shares your interests, so it's more about personality, and I was fed up with all of the men in the bars looking for skirt.Paula Jayne struggled to find a decent man in nightclubs, because they were always 'chasing skirt.' The mother-of-two thought dating sites would be the answer to her problems but found they attracted similar kinds of men. Despite being an urban town, Basildon boasts a surprising number of parks and open spaces. Take your own picnic or partake in a bit of sporting activity like tennis or cycling and the hours will whizz by with this free dating idea.Either of Basildon’s Northlands, Gloucester or Wat Tyler parks would make a great setting in which to enjoy the fresh air and the company of somebody new.
Here’s what I wrote on my profile – ‘I am a positive, fun-loving girl from London looking to meet somebody for good times, interesting conversation and plenty of fun.Basildon's handy links to London – located 25 miles west and a mere hop, skip and train ride away - means that dating in Basildon doesn’t have to be limited to ‘Bas Vegas’.If you’re one of the many resident Basildon singles you’ll know full-well what we’re referring to, but for the sake of balance: ‘Bas Vegas’ is what is locally known (whether or not ‘affectionately’ may depend on your personal point of view) as Basildon’s Festival Leisure Park.Why not buy two tickets the next time you’re planning an evening out with one of your matches?If the big smoke is calling your name, why not give in and head into London for a night out on the tiles?To receive when new Speed Dating events in Kent are added to the Click Singles Dating Events list please register with us.